10 Activities for Building a Stronger Relationship: Couple Coaching Exercises

From love letters to sensate focus, these fun and effective activities can help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Relationship Exercises for Couples

Relationships can be one of life’s greatest joys, but they also take work and effort to maintain. Whether you’re in a long-term committed partnership or just starting out, finding ways to strengthen your bond can be challenging.

Fortunately, there are many techniques and exercises available to help couples build a deeper connection and improve their communication. In this article, we’ve compiled a list of ten fun and effective activities for couples that can be used in coaching or practiced on your own to build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

  1. Love Letter Writing: Encourage couples to write love letters to each other, expressing their appreciation and affection for their partner. This can be done as a regular exercise, such as weekly or monthly.
  2. Date Nights: Encourage couples to set aside time for regular date nights, where they can spend quality time together doing activities they enjoy. This can help strengthen the emotional bond between partners.
  3. Communication Exercises: Offer couples various communication exercises, such as one partner sharing a personal story and the other partner reflecting back what they heard, or playing the “empathy game” where each partner takes turns sharing their feelings and the other partner reflects back what they heard.
  4. Mindfulness Exercises: Encourage couples to practice mindfulness exercises together, such as meditation, deep breathing, or yoga. These activities can help reduce stress and increase emotional awareness.
  5. Couples’ Bucket List: Help couples create a list of activities they would like to do together, such as travel, learn a new skill, or participate in a charity event. This can help couples feel more connected and motivated to share experiences together.
  6. Gratitude Journaling: Encourage couples to keep a joint gratitude journal, where they write down things they are grateful for in their partner and their relationship. This can help increase positive feelings and appreciation for each other.
  7. Role Play Exercises: Offer role play exercises to help couples practice challenging situations and improve communication skills. This can include conflict resolution, problem-solving, and active listening.
  8. Sensate Focus: This exercise involves non-sexual touch and can help couples improve their physical and emotional connection. It involves one partner touching the other in a specific way, with the focus on sensation rather than sexual activity.
  9. Volunteering Together: Encourage couples to volunteer together for a cause they both care about. This can help strengthen their sense of purpose and connection to each other.
  10. Shared Hobbies: Encourage couples to find a shared hobby or activity they both enjoy, such as cooking, painting, or playing a sport. This can help increase quality time together and create shared memories.

Which ones are you two going to take action on?

Taking action is important in relationships because it allows couples to move beyond just talking about their problems and begin making changes in their relationship. Many couples enter retreats, workshops, and coaching feeling stuck and unsure of how to improve their relationship. Talking about their problems and emotions can be a helpful first step, but it’s not enough to create lasting change.

By taking action, couples can begin to practice new behaviors and habits that can lead to greater intimacy, understanding, and connection. Action-oriented exercises and techniques can help couples develop new skills, strengthen their emotional bond, and improve their communication.

In addition, taking action can be empowering for couples. It allows them to feel more in control of their relationship and the direction it is headed in. When couples do these exercises together, they are able to create a sense of shared responsibility and commitment to their relationship, which can help build trust and emotional safety.

Overall, while talking about problems and emotions is an important part of couples therapy, taking action is the key to creating lasting change and building a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

About Jeff Gardner

Jeff specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Strategies and Techniques and leverages this method to work with clients on shifting their beliefs and mindset, leading to a more fulfilling life.

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